Married and dating someone else (Answers: 3) (Comments: 0)
ok well not me, but my besfriends older sister. She's 22 with 2 adorable little boys ( 2 and 3 years of age) they been married for 5 years ( her husband is her deceased bestfriends boyfriend, whom commited scuicide when they were 16) and they got married 2 weeks after dating, conceived their first child on their wedding night, and the rest is history. Okay well, they are both young, the marriage is NOT good at all. I mean they love eachother, but they don't always act like it. Hes mean to her sometimes and hits her and grabs her when they get in arguments ( they claim hes bipolar) and shes just as worst. He basically controls her, and shes in love with him, but she has a wondering eye. Right now they are still married but are not living w/ eachother temporarily because of course, and incident that happend months ago and she is not allowed by the court to be at his house( even though sometimes she goes over there still) So bascially they fight anbd makeup up all the time. Well the dilemma her is, she found out about a year ago he had taken a girl out on 2 dates and told her his supposed "seperated" wife is a physco b word and is trying to get their kids away. She found out about what she consider "cheating" ( i wouldnt argue) and cursed him out over the phone. He didn't deny or confirm it. He just got mad, hung up and later called back to tell her he loves her and goodnight. Lately we have all been going downtown and she had met a guy she REALLY likes. They are now boyfriend and GF and she had sex with him 5 times now. She also had a fling with another guy, and had sex with him twice. So basically she give sout her number to guys, and now she's dating one. I don't want to call her a whore because all she wants is to be treated right and to get along with her husband. But he smean to her, they always argue and she feels he doesnt pay attention to her. But doesnt want to divorce because despite their arguments or problems, they have 2 kids and still love eachother. She recently told him shes dating a guy because she really likes him, and he was shattered. She said he was so hurt and crying. He then left and that was that. ( they still talk over the phone) so bascially... i dont even know what to say. Its not easy to say " get a divorce" because they both love eachother despite how they act. I mean come on after they found out of the afairs, they were both shattered and hart broken and crying. They have to little boys and dont wanna break up the fam. Yet its just all unhealthy. What do u guys think of this? what should they do? Oh ya and i dont suggest counseling... its a nice suggestion and can't hurt, but people are the way people are. Unless a counselor and make a potion and change who they are as people, its not gonna help. OKay well thnanks. oh ya, and when he took that girl out, they weren't "seperated". and also, who knows what other girls he had tken out?

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